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Column 267

Mother, Washing Dishes

Intro by Ted Kooser
05.02.2010

Here’s a poem by Susan Mey­ers, of South Car­oli­na, about the most ordi­nary of activ­i­ties, wash­ing the dish­es, but in this instance remem­ber­ing this ordi­nary rou­tine pro­vides an oppor­tu­ni­ty for spec­u­la­tion about the pri­vate plea­sures of a lost parent. 

Mother, Washing Dishes

                                She rarely made us do it—
we’d clear the table instead—so my sister and I teased
that some day we’d train our children right
and not end up like her, after every meal stuck
with red knuckles, a bleached rag to wipe and wring.
The one chore she spared us: gummy plates
in water greasy and swirling with sloughed peas,
globs of egg and gravy.
 
                                Or did she guard her place
at the window? Not wanting to give up the gloss
of the magnolia, the school traffic humming.
Sunset, finches at the feeder. First sightings
of the mail truck at the curb, just after noon,
delivering a note, a card, the least bit of news.

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We do not accept unsolicited submissions. American Life in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org), publisher of Poetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Poem copyright ©2009 by the Univ. of So. Carolina Press. Susan Meyers’ most recent book of poems is Keep and Give Away, Univ. of So. Carolina Press, 2006. Poem reprinted from Tar River Poetry, Vol. 48, no. 1, Fall 2008, by permission of the publisher. Introduction copyright © 2024 by The Poetry Foundation.