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Column 574

I Wore This Dress Today for You, Mom,

Intro by Ted Kooser
03.20.2016
When I was a boy, because of the song, I thought there real­ly was an East­er parade, but the East­ers came and went with­out one. But here’s a glimpse of just a lit­tle piece of a parade by Kim Dow­er, who lives in Los Ange­les. Her forth­com­ing book is Last Train to the Miss­ing Plan­et, Red Hen Press, 2016

I Wore This Dress Today for You, Mom,

breezy, floral, dancing with color
soft, silky, flows as I walk
Easter Sunday and you always liked

to get dressed, go for brunch, "maybe
there's a good movie playing somewhere?"
Wrong religion, we were not church-goers,

but New Yorkers who understood the value
of a parade down 5th Avenue, bonnets
in lavender, powder blues, pinks, hues

of spring, the hope it would bring.
We had no religion but we did have
noodle kugel, grandparents, dads

who could fix fans, reach the china
on the top shelf, carve the turkey.
That time has passed. You were the last

to go, mom, and I still feel bad I never
got dressed up for you like you wanted me to.
I had things, things to do. But today in L.A.—

hot the way you liked it—those little birds
you loved to see flitting from tree to tree—
just saw one, a twig in its mouth, preparing

a bed for its baby—might still be an egg,
I wish you were here. I've got a closet filled
with dresses I need to show you.

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Poem copyright ©2015 by Kim Dower, “I Wore This Dress Today for You, Mom,” from Rattle, (No. 48, Summer, 2015). Poem reprinted by permission of Kim Dower and the publisher. 
Introduction copyright © 2024 by The Poetry Foundation.