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Column 657

My Mother's Penmanship Lessons

Intro by Ted Kooser
10.22.2017

I was deeply moved by this week’s poem, which shows us the courage of a per­son strug­gling with a dis­abil­i­ty, one that threat­ens the way in which she wish­es to present her­self. It illus­trates the fierce dig­ni­ty that many of us have observed in elder­ly peo­ple. Wes­ley McNair served five years as poet lau­re­ate of Maine, and his most recent book is The Unfas­ten­ing, pub­lished by David R. Godine.

My Mother's Penmanship Lessons

In her last notes, when her hand began
to tremble, my mother tried to teach it
 
the penmanship she was known for,
how to make the slanted stems
 
of the p's and d's, the descending
roundness of the capital m's, the long
 
loops of the f's crossed at the center,
sending it back again and again
 
until each message was the same:
a record of her insistence that the hand
 
return her to the way she was before,
and of all the ways the hand had disobeyed.
 

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We do not accept unsolicited submissions. American Life in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org), publisher of Poetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Poem copyright ©2016 by Wesley McNair, “My Mother's Penmanship Lessons,” from The Unfastening, (David R. Godine, 2017). Poem reprinted by permission of Wesley McNair and the publisher. Introduction copyright © 2024 by The Poetry Foundation.