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Column 899

Doing the Bills

06.13.2022

The hum­ble meal of bread, sug­ar and milk is an icon­ic expres­sion of the seem­ing­ly unpo­et­ic” quo­tid­i­an rit­u­als of life — pay­ing bills, wor­ry­ing about the bills, sur­viv­ing the bills. In the poem, Doing the Bills”, Lee Upton is remind­ed of her father, even as she, with a part­ner, does the bills. She cap­tures such deep sen­ti­ment in the image of the head being held in the hands. The moment of beau­ty arrives in the meal that she describes. It is a spot of sweet­ness in a world of every­day hardship.

Doing the Bills

My father impaling bills
on a nail on a block of wood
then putting his head in his hands
and you with your head in your hands
and my head in my hands
hands over my eyes
and I see again what I forgot for decades
my father
after doing the bills
crumbling bread in a bowl
and pouring milk over the bread
and spooning in sugar.

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We do not accept unsolicited submissions. American Life in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org), publisher of Poetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Poem copyright ©2021 by Lee Upton, “Doing the Bills” from The Southern Review, Vol. 37:3, Summer 2021. Poem reprinted by permission of the author and the publisher. Introduction copyright © 2024 by The Poetry Foundation.