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Column 097

Somebody Else’s Baby

Intro by Ted Kooser
02.07.2007

Though par­ents know that their chil­dren will grow up and away from them, will love and be loved by oth­ers, it’s a dif­fi­cult thing to accept. Mass­a­chu­setts poet Mary Jo Salter empha­sizes the poignan­cy of the parent/​child rela­tion­ship in this per­cep­tive and com­pelling poem. 

Somebody Else’s Baby

From now on they always are, for years now
they always have been, but from now on you know
they are, they always will be,

from now on when they cry and you say
wryly to their mother, better you than me,
you’d better mean it, you’d better

hand over what you can’t have, and gracefully.

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We do not accept unsolicited submissions. American Life in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org), publisher of Poetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Reprinted from New Letters, vol. 72, no. 3-4, 2006, by permission of the poet. Copyright © 2006 by Mary Jo Salter, whose most recent book of poetry is Open Shutters, Knopf, 2003. Introduction copyright © 2024 by The Poetry Foundation.