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Column 251

The Other Fathers

Intro by Ted Kooser
01.10.2010

The poet Lyn Lif­shin, who divides her time between New York and Vir­ginia, is one of the most pro­lif­ic poets among my con­tem­po­raries, and has thou­sands of poems in print, by my loose reck­on­ing. I have been read­ing her work in lit­er­ary mag­a­zines for at least thir­ty years. Here’s a good exam­ple of this poet at her best. 

The Other Fathers

would be coming back
from some war, sending
back stuffed birds or
handkerchiefs in navy
blue with Love painted  
on it. Some sent telegrams
for birthdays, the pastel
letters like jewels. The  
magazines were full of fathers who
were doing what had
to be done, were serving,  
were brave. Someone
yelped there’d be confetti
in the streets, maybe
no school. That soon
we’d have bananas. My
father sat in the grey
chair, war after war,
hardly said a word. I
wished he had gone
away with the others
so maybe he would
be coming back to us


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We do not accept unsolicited submissions. American Life in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org), publisher of Poetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Poem copyright ©2008 by Lyn Lifshin, whose most recent book of poems is Persephone, Red Hen Press, 2008. Poem reprinted from Natural Bridge, No. 20, Winter, 2008, by permission of Lyn Lifshin and the publisher. Introduction copyright © 2024 by The Poetry Foundation.